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Vday Nails !
18:48
So I don't know how many of my readers on here actually follow me on instagram (probably none, so GO CHECK ME OUT ON INSTAGRAM @azhng), but today I instagrammed a picture of my vday nails !
I'm leaving for Toronto with my boothang tomorrow so I thought I would fix up my nails today for vday. Once again, I got my nails done at Modern Nails. It's my third time getting my nails done here and they haven't disappointed me once. They always do exactly as I tell them to, and replicated the designs I show them perfectly. Love the service, and of course the price is unbeatable.
Hope you guys are having a great tuesday, and I promise I'll get another blog post up soon !
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Long Hur Don't Cur (how I take care of my hur)
18:08
Lately my hair has grown out to be a ridiculous length. I've thought about chopping a few inches off it but my boyfriend keeps telling me that it looks good at the length that it is, and that he likes it long soooo I haven't cut it in a while. Not going to lie though, at the length that it is at, it looks absolutely amazing curled. It almost looks like I had put in extensions. It's thick, and long, and full. I absolutely adore it.
The only problems I've really been having with it is that, some how, the hair at the back of my neck keeps getting tangled. I'll comb it out in the morning and a few hours later, I run my fingers through it and there is a ridiculous knot. My hair is also getting really weak at the ends now. So much that if there's a knot in my hair that I have to comb through, a lot of the hairs will just break :'(
It's funny though because I still regularly get people telling me how pretty and healthy my hair looks. HEALTHY ? ARE YOU FO' REALS? To me, my hair has been the most damaged it has ever been. 1. because I destroyed it with bleach and dye
and
2. because it's long as nuts.
But apparently, it's still considered relatively healthy ! I'm assuming it's because the colour in my hair is the first time I have ever dyed my hair, so really, there hasn't been that much damage done. Plus curling my hair is a rarity. The only heat tools I use often is my hair drier.
So let me give you guys a run through of what I do to my hair, since apparently it's "healthy" *rolls eyes*. Be warned though, I honestly don't do very much to my hair. I just got lucky and was born with healthy, smooth, silky hair. I swear it's an asian thing. ANYWAYS
What I do to my hair
Usually I don't use any special shampoo or conditioners for my hair. My whole life I have been using cheap drugstore shampoos like Garnier, Pantene Pro V, Herbal Essences, TreSemme etc. For the past couple of years, I've definitely used TreSemme the most. I really like the scents they have and it seemed to just have worked really well for my hair. Recently, however, my mom decided to go back to Herbal Essences Body Envy (probably because it was cheaper). So I've been using that now. Honestly, I think I prefer TreSemme a little more. Herbal Essences seems to strip my hair of it's natural oils a little more than I like it to.After I ombred my hair, I actually went out and bought an argan oil conditioner for my hair. I'm super sorry I dont actually remember the brand of it anymore ): BUT honestly, mine was a random cheap one from winners. Any argan or morrocan oil conditioner will do. I usually just work the oil conditioner into the bottom half of my hair and use my normal conditioner for the top half.
As for other hair products? Well, I use the TreSemme Heat protectant before I use any serious hair tools on it and that's about it !
Do I blow dry my hair? Hell yeah. Ain't no body got time to for dat shit to dry nuh-uh.
There are days that I get lazy and I let it air dry though. But it doesn't happen that often.
and yeah, that pretty much concludes my hair routine.
I know it was stupid and short and probably unnecessary but I thought I would write about it anyways, incase anyone asks again.
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Red Lipsticks.
14:12
This past Christmas, for my student club secret santa event, I received my very first MAC lipstick. Being the makeup obsessed freak that I've become in the last couple of years, it's a big surprise that I never went out and splurged on a MAC lipstick. Yes, I say splurge, even though these lipsticks don't cost nearly as much as some of the higher end lipsticks out there ($18). But still. I live on a very tight, measly little hostess budget. Especially with the taxes and gas price in Vancouver.. I think I'm just going to stick with buying 6 dollar lipstick from Walmart. It's true what they say though, you really can't judge something unless you've tried it. And honestly, I haven't even had the chance to wear this lipstick yet... but just holding the slick black tube in my hand... swatching it over and over, taking photos and admiring it... I've already fallen in love.
Something about a MAC lipstick just feels so... right. It was pretty much love at first touch.
The one that I received was MAC's classic matte red lipstick, Ruby Woo. I was absolutely lusting over the Ruby Woo variation that came in the rose gold packaging for Rihanna's line with MAC, but I heard it was pretty much the same lipstick, just in a different tube.
Usually I don't tend to gravitate towards the matte lipsticks just because I've been cursed with super disgustingly dry and chapped lips most of the time. However, because it is a MAC lipstick (something a little more special and luxurious than my average drugstore lippie) I'm sorta glad I got a matte one. It seems to make it more special, and it's something that I probably won't wear as often.
Which to me, isn't necessarily a bad thing. It just means I'll have this pretty little thing for longer.
Anyways, when I first swatched it, I was actually a little surprised. In the tube, Ruby Woo looks like a very classic blue-toned red. But swatched on my hand (and maybe it's because of my skintone?) it turned out to be a brighter, more warm-toned (almost orangey) red. Like I said, I haven't gotten the chance to wear this lipstick yet, so I don't know what it'll look like on, but from the swatch above, you can see that it doesn't come out as cool-toned as you think it would.
So what's the first thing I do after swatching this lovely new baby of mine? Try to find a color dupe in my collection.. DUH.
So here is my little collection of red lipsticks. I don't have that big of a variation in brands, but as you can see, I still have quite a few reds.
So from left to right in the above pictures I have :
Wet N' Wild - Red Velvet
Maybelline - On Fire Red
MAC - Ruby Woo
Wet N' Wild - Stoplight Red
Maybelline - Red Revival
So here are the swatches for all the above lipsticks. Please ignore my dry hand. It's going from winter to spring here in Vancouver, and usually when the season changes, my body goes absolutely bonkers and completely dries. Don't ask me why, I have no idea. It just happens.
So the swatch at the very left is Red Velvet by WnW. I thought that Red Revival (the swatch at the bottom) would be the closest to Ruby Woo when I first glanced at it, but it turns out Red Velvet turned out to be a much closer match than Red Revival. Stoplight Red (the one at the top) also matches pretty well but I still think Red Velvet is the closest. Other than the texture and finish of the lipstick (Red Velvet is creamier, and more moisturizing) it would actually be a pretty good dupe for MAC's infamous Ruby Woo.
How are you liking the qualities of these pictures by the way? I've been playing around with my friend's T3i and I've been absolutely loving it. I'm planning to take some of my saved up chinese new years money and buy myself one ! I'm going to be using the T3i to film a make video soon too to see how it works in the video department but so far I am adoring this camera. Get ready for some way better quality pictures for this blog.
Hope you guys are having as great of a day as I am.
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Throwback : New Years Eve
02:24
NYE was a crazy night this year.
I love getting to spend new years with someone I love; nothing beats a good, loving, new years kiss.
Not to mention I got to party with the dopest crew (: I never imagined spending new years with this crew, and this crew alone because... well... we all have such different friends, and live at different places. But we came together this year and something awesome came out of it. I love these people from the bottom of my heart (:
hardwell looking like a god standing up there
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My two cents on fuck buddies
01:52
So recently I've decided I'm going to really re-vamp my blog and give it the extra 'pop' that it needs. Whether that's the 20 bucks I spent on a new theme (which I hope y'all are loving as much as I am) or writing posts that are actually informative and interesting, I'm gunna do it all.
I really do want to get more serious about my blogging, but I really haven't figured out how up until now.
But after reading HUSH magazine all day today, I really got inspired by their RAW material. It's really given me a different outlook on what I want my blog to be about. And well... I want it to be about me, essentially. I want it to represent me for exactly who I am (and maybe a little of who I want to be). I want it to be an inside look at what goes on in my mind. I want it to ooze me. Is that so much to ask for?
Anyways, enough with the logistics, I'm just going to jump right in on a topic that I used to question, but I have experienced... pretty fully.
fuck buddies.
It seems like a pretty fool-proof plan right? Mutually using someone for sex? I mean.. everyone has their needs, and when those needs haven't been fulfilled for a while... well... people get desperate. But it's true what they say... all good things come to an end. And so will this. I mean maybe, maybe, you'll get lucky and some how work something out that doesn't fall apart into a million pieces. But the odds usually just aren't in your favour when it comes to this. Things tend to get messier than the bedsheets you ruined in the process. Feeling get hurt, relationships ruined... it's just not a pretty picture.
How do I know this? well.. from experience.
As this article from HUSH magazine states... there are a few different candidates that can be chosen to be your lucky new sex toy.
THE EX : I've had an ex for a sex buddy. I think I was lying to myself from the get-go with this one though. I told myself "yeah.. I have needs... needs that he knows exactly how to fulfill. So this seems perfect! we're broken up, it's a mutual agreement.. and of course this will only prove (to him and to me) that I don't love him anymore !"
And boy how I was wrong. It's almost an impossible task not to rekindle old feelings when you have sex with an ex. I mean, let's be real here. You have dated this person before. You guys used to hold hands, make love, cuddle.. the whole ordeal. So shouldn't it be obvious that repeating even one of these activities will re-trigger feelings that you thought were long gone? Well that's what happened to me. NOT cuddling with him after sex was near impossible. And after a while, I lost sight of whether I was fucking him because my vagina wanted the D, or because I wanted him. Not good, I tell you. Before you make the decision to fuck the ex... please remember that he's an ex for a reason.
THE BRO : Okay, I'll admit... I've actually made this mistake on two separate occasions. Thankfully one of the times, I was actually able to save my friendship. The other time? Not so much.
So you know how it goes, you're chilling with one of your bros (that you tell absolutely everything to) one day, and you come across the discussion of your dry-spells. "Man I haven't gotten it in months," He'll say. And then.. some how, magically, he didn't seem so ... plain anymore. And the thought of him getting it in, well it's making your stomach churn, in a good way. So you offer him a propositions. Let's be "friends with benefits" (you'll call it FWB instead of fuck buddies because, well, you guys are friends). What could possibly go wrong ! It's seems perfect. It didn't work out with the ex because we previously had feelings.. but I've never had a relationship (cough baggage) with my bro ! We could just hang out like we always do, but with the added benefit of jumping each other's bones !
Let me just be straight forward with you... NO. DON'T DO IT.
Unless you want to
a. potentially fall for your 'bro'
b. potentially date your 'bro'
c. potentially break his heart
or
d. completely and utterly destroy your friendship forever.
I know what you're thinking. Well what if it turns out to be something beautiful?! Just like Mila Kunis and Justin Timberlake in the very appropriate movie 'Friends With Benefits'.
Well, here's something that if you don't know, you must have been living under a rock or be max. 13 years old. LIFE IS NOT A FUCKING MOVIE. It rarely EVER turns out like it does in the movies ! And let me tell you.. dating your bestfriend/bro? been there done that. twice. And 1 out of the 2 times I've lost that person completely from my life. (I got extremely lucky the other time, but even so, our relationship will never be the same again). So conclusion is? if you don't want to lose this 'bro' from your life? Don't fuck him.
The moral of the story ? fuck buddies just don't work. I mean maybe if you had a stranger as a fuck buddy? maybe? but even then it is inevitable for something to arise out of it. Sex brings emotions, and connection, and feelings (ew). It's just how we are. But I mean, if you don't believe me, you're more than welcome to try it out yourself. Why live through me right? This is not me telling you NOT to (even though I direct said 'no' several times during this article), this is just me being a loving pal, giving you some warning. Just letting you know my experiences so that you can get a better idea about whether to proceed with yours.
Anyways, that is all my lovers.
To all my sexy ladies out there, fuck on. & don't let anyone tell you otherwise.